There have been several lists created informing women on how to tell if their man is cheating so I decided to give some tips to the men on signs that the woman is up to some tricks. The list can be adjusted and some may see the signs as meaningless. As a woman who has been cheated on and been a cheater at one point, I beg to differ. Women are usually more emotional creatures, so there are some signs that we give when we have lost interest in a man. Our behavior may not change dramatically like a man’s but there will be changes.

1.Her friends are single and like to mingle.

Women sometimes work in group thought. If their BFF has a man then they too want someone special to spend time with. On the contrary if their BFF is single and hitting the clubs up every weekend and having luxurious rendezvous then she might become envious of her friends freedom. Especially is her lat rendezvous with her boo was a trip to FatBurger. Suddenly she can recall the days when she was free and guys chased and lusted after her. She envies her friend going out with a different guy every other night. Every woman needs to feel wanted.

2.She is spending every weekend out with her friends and she never includes you.

If she went from hanging out with you on the weekends or even splitting her time between you and her friends on the weekends to spending every moment with her home girls then warning! Especially if you never receive an invite.

3.She suddenly does not have any time to spend with you (outside weekends).

I am a firm believer that as adults we make time for what we want to make time for. This includes people. If every time you try to spend time with her she has a reason why she cannot hang with you but always seems to make time for her friends then that it a sign. Women like to spend time with their man if they are into him. If she suddenly has no desire to spend quality time with you then it might be because she is spending quality time with someone else.

4.She doesn’t bring her cell phone or keeps it powered down to save the battery etc..

If she never answers her cell phone while she is out with her friends then there might be cause for suspicion. You also should question if she constantly powers her cell phone down while she is out. Her excuse might be that she wants to save juice for her phone but don’t believe the hype. Get her a new battery for it. Most people don’t turn their phones off while they are away from home. That is the point of having a mobile phone. Get it? Mobile Phone.

5.The sudden appearance of a bunch of male “friends“.

A woman usually has a few platonic male friends but usually these are friends who have been around for a while. Some even before your arrival in her life. Either way, if they are really just friends then at some point you should have met them. If suddenly she has an appearance of a gang of new male friends that you have never heard of or met before hand then that is a reason for alarm. They might be her “special friends”.

6.She does not want to have sex with you.

This is an obvious one. It does not take a rocket scientist to figure this out. If your once healthy sexual life begins to dip off into being non existent then she may be getting it from some place else. Women enjoy sex as much as men do. Please do not believe the hype that it is an activity that we dread. Everyone loves good toe curling, hot, sweaty, sex/orgasms.

7. She has NEW activities.

This one you have to be careful of because she might honestly have new activities that are keeping her away from home. However, she might not. It could be that your wife/woman who used to be running home to you after work new activity is her new man.

8.The round table discussion gets squared off.

If you ask her questions about her day or activities and her response is “none of your business” then she is be being sneaky. Especially if you once were able to ask her questions like that without it turning into an argument or her growling at you with annoyance.

9. Everyone else can have a conversation with her except you.

We all know that women are the communicators of our species. If suddenly your once talkative wife/wifey barely has anything to say to you then beware. It might be because she is wishing you were that other guy who she loves to spend hours talking to because he somehow “gets” her so much more than anyone else, including you.

10. “Ahhs” become “ughs” and smiles become “I don’t feel like being touched right now.”

My Grandmother has been married to my Grandfather for over 50 years and she still gets butterflies when he comes home from work. Obviously I am not suggesting that every woman should be leap for joy when she is in her man’s presence but there should at least be some type of excitement there. If she rolls her eyes when she hears your key in the door and gives you the most dry expression she can some up with once you hit the house then that is a sign. Basically she is acting as if your presence is bothersome.

11. She pulls away from you emotionally (Big Warning)

As I previously stated, women are emotional creatures. When we are involved with someone we connect with them on an emotional level. It becomes deeper than the sex being good, the guy being fine etc.. So if your woman is giving you absolutely no emotional feedback, then that is a bad sign. If nothing you do, good or bad, moves her in any way, it could be because she is no longer than into you.