When the incident between Chris Brown and Rihanna first occurred, women around the world were disturbed. This was the pretty boy that was coveted by all the little fan girls and even some grown women. How could he be a woman beater?Was this the same guy who was spinning and cheesing in the Double Mint commercial? As time has gone on some people have forgiven him but there are others who refuse to let him live down his days of abuse.
Still, there are other women who do not give a damn about what happened between him and Rihanna. Figuring that Rihanna must have done something extreme for him to beat her and that they would never have to worry about such a reaction if they were dating Chris because they would never make him THAT mad. Reactions like these make me wonder how many women would date a woman beater? Let me rephrase that, a convicted woman beater.
Some people were shocked when they saw that he had moved on to new woman and now even seems to be in a relationship with a new chick. They found themselves pondering: Didn’t she get the memo? He whoops ass. Now in a situation like this, Chris Brown is a star and he has money. That alone is enough to make some women forgive him for all his wrongs and date him. The added perk is that dating him could lead you to fame as well a’ la’ Kim Kardashian and Amber Rose. So taking a chance that he could possibly go upside their head does not seem as threatening when you consider the perks that might come along with it.
For us regular girls out here, what if you were dating a man and he admitted to you that he has a past of domestic abuse? Would that mean the end of you dating him? Would it depend upon the circumstances that lead to him hitting the woman? Or perhaps it would matter the most to you how many times he was involved in a situation like that?
I’m not too keen on taking ass whooping and tend to have a feisty mouth so in my case that would probably be my queue to exit. Regardless of his financial success or fame. Also, knowing that would probably make me look at the guy in a different way. I would see him as a woman beater and always wonder if I ever made him mad enough would he go there with me? Worrying if you are going to ever get your ass whooped sours the dating experience for me.
My questions to you are: Regardless of a man’s past, doesn’t he deserve a second chance just as anyone else would? What if you are dating someone and he has never laid a hand on you or gave you the impression that he would hit you but you learn that he beat his ex? Can certain women bring out a violent nature in a man or are women never to blame for a man reacting with domestic violence? Also, women date men with a history of cheating, aren’t you risking that he could cheat on you as well? Fellas feel free to chime in. Especially the ones who might have been in an abusive relationship with a woman in the past. Did you carry that behavior on to other relationships? Be honest…
All my dates including the now; was a woman beater. The thing is that I threw some blows at him too. I don't think its easy 2 know when a guy is a beater until they hit u. Backgrounds aren't always efficient in a guy beating a woman. The guy I'm with now never hit me but I hit him a couple of times & he retailated by holding me down 2 stop. It wasn't forceful he just defended himself like a mom ny restraining their child from being destructive 2 others or theirself. He told me not 2 put my hands on him becuz I wouldn't like the outcome as a warning. He saidhe has changed & I believe him. Sometimes we as women can be vicious at times towards men & cause them to hit us. Other times the man is in the wrong by hitting first because of uncontrolled emotions from stupid arguement or the fact he got blasted on for something that shamed him in front of someone he liked or respected.(my past exes) There is never a rightto hitting a person period, but there is nuthin wrong with fighting back.(Tina vs. Ike)I'll date Chris Brown & beat the hell out of him if he wanna act a fool 2. Yes I am taking self-defense classes like J.LO in movie enough. She whooped that man's ass at the end. If she can do it so can any other woman no matter how much money u packin or how appealing u r. Its about dignity and strength 2 face ur fears and nip that aggressor in the butt. Some men like aggressive women especially those that r in their face & boss them around like children, u never hear them getting beat down. Mainly becuz most men know who 2 fight and who not 2 mess with on that level, just like cheating. Spooking a guy is just like putting fear in a child. It's about the demand of respect & putting ur foot on their neck if u have to! Much Luv & respect sistas. Men only do what u let them do!!!!
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