6. Don't sleep with her if she doesn't flirt with other women. Your horizons will be limited with her.

Very good article and additions by Steve Sykes. People really should slow down and think about who they share their bodies with. It would do brothas good to not fall into the macho trap of just sleeping with anything they can get their hands on. My beautiful brothas are so much better than that.

As a female I would add a few more to this list:

1) Don't sleep with a girl who has three or more kids close in age with different fathers and they are under the age of 6. Too much baggage. Too many unresolved issues in her life.

2) Don't sleep with a female who has her hair, nails and toes looking great but needs money for her cell phone or another bill. Where are her priorities?

3) Don't sleep with a woman if she wants to blame everyone for the bad things that have happened to her. A woman must take responsibility for the decisions she has made.

Also, fellas, please don't sleep with her if all she do is smoke weed and drink...those are the ones who have been up and down the block many of times....a lot of times those are the females that men get pregnant, thinking they will save her or something....A lot of times women that smoke weed and drink allday are looking for some type of escape, so sex is just an added bonus for them..and they don't care....I watched my male cousins pull the line to a female askin"u drink,or do u smoke,and less then 24hrs later,there having sex....I'm sorry I had to be ghetto on here,just need to address all audiences....lol

I agree with Mr.Sykes I can't comment he hit all points.

I would like to add a couple more please:

1) Don't sleep with her if she has unresolved issues from her past about being rapped or molested. She can be using sex as a reason to escape or feels like she has to sleep with as many men as possible to forget about the pain, but never works.

2)If you're like 50, and she's 20, or some big age difference like that, don't sleep with her unless she really do love you. She's in it for money or some father figure/daddy issues.

3)If she doesn't have it together as a woman, don't sleep with her. She directly or indirectly looking to you to fulfill her needs and she's not happy with herself first. A woman should love her body enough, if not fully, to be able to let go, enjoy the moment, without regrets. I never met a man who said no to a woman whose left breast was smaller then the right, or something trivial like that.

4)Don't sleep with her if she feels sex is the only way to keep you in the relationship. If & when you do break up with her, she will feel used for sex only, even though she pressed it upon you.

5) If both of you are really working on your relationship with GOD and want to have a good future together, don't sleep with her until you're married or if married, seek counseling first if either of you have infidelity issues.

6) If the chick has a bad attitude, mean, stuck up, steals, curses like Samuel Jackson, fights all the time, and/or some other major character issue, don't sleep with her. When you sleep with someone, you're sharing each other soul & spirit. Thus that negative personality trait will come upon you and you have to pray to GOD to release that spirit from you.

Thanks.