There are several modes of thinking when it comes to relationships; some say that it’s a two way street, others say that each individual remains individual while upholding a platform of togetherness. Most of these theories don’t resonate with me because they don’t introduce Hustle into the equation and that itself can determine much about the direction the two of you go in. When I say “she’s your reflection”, I don’t mean that she doesn’t cast an image herself; I’m saying that you, as a man, should set the example and the bar for the productivity of the relationship. That also means that some of the parts of it we take for granted need to take a backseat as well.We’ve talked successful men and women, now let’s get into what makes a successful power couple.
Being on point dress-wise…
Growing up, I didn’t see the use of buying a varying degree of clothing. A couple pairs of jeans, some sneakers and a hoodie fit me fine. As my adolescence ended and adulthood approached I began seeing my peers put away the Jncos and step into Dockers and Lacoste. Did I follow suit? Not fully, I understood the need to have a few decent work worthy pieces in my closet, which I bought, but not really until a few years ago did I really come into my own and realized the value of a well dressed man. While I still have no love for the three piece get up, you will see me pull out the crisp button down, tie and slacks on occasion. My girl is a huge sneaker head, probably more than most guys but the same happened for her since we’ve been together, her closet began reflecting that of a woman understanding her role and playing her part. She still collects dope pieces every once in a while but she keeps it in line with her ambitions.
Curbing the cursing…
Both being fans of hip hop, she and I have long incorporated much of its colorful language into our vocabulary–she more than me however we’ve made conscious efforts to tone it down. I try not to curse, particularly due to understanding that mama didn’t pay for that schooling for me to not know my way around a thesaurus. She understands how I feel on the subject and as such abstains as much as she can from using expletives. If you have to curse then there’s a good chance you’re not thinking through what you want to say thus making it ineffective in my eyes.
Putting Hustle before the relationship…
I am a strict hardliner when it comes to working on your craft. She knows this and appreciates that I am willing to put all the cuddling and cooing on the back burner while I go chase this paper. She’s an earner herself, a fact that I am thankful for because there are a lot of people, both women and men, who would rather chill than grind. We make time for each other of course yet she knows that if I don’t pick up, I’m working and she doesn’t trip. We aim high and work hard for ours. Hustle is my entertainment and if I had it my way, I’d barely leave the spot. She’s more the social butterfly, I recognize that and do my best to take her out sometimes….. To Read The Rest Go To AmbitionIsSexy
By: CZA The CEO
