Don’t you just hate people who always speculate? I tell you some people these days just talk because they have the freedom to do so. I know your mother told you to think before you speak right!

In other words, leave Chris Brown alone!! Was it real tears or fake tears?? Guess what….we’ll never know! I tell you, some people will bring up a topic just to stop talking about the real issues at hand.

Lets bring up the facts:

His music career has suffered from his actions.
He’s been doing community service for awhile (which I’m pretty sure that even more had an effect on his emotions to MJ’s song).
Chris Brown danced is heart out on that stage.
After accepting his award, Chris Brown said that he had let us down before and he won’t do it again. (I wonder how many times you have said this? Only time will tell…)

So what more do you want from the boy. What has he done to you? The incident happened to Rihanna, not us.

I have never been in an abusive relationship, but I have made a few bad decisions in my life and there is no greater feeling when you have made peace with a bad decision you’ve made. Regardless, if people want to hang things over your head, it matters not! Once you have made peace with yourself, then it no longer has power over you.

Now, whether you want to admit it or not, in one point of your life you have been redeemed. While there are many definitions to the word redeem, I like this one definition. Redeem—to obtain the release or restoration of, as from captivity. If his performance didn’t change your mind, then go back and listen to his speech.

Life is about lessons. There are no mistakes, only decisions. We have good ones and bad ones and yet we learn and grow from them both.

Written By: LaTara Harris
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