Sex is good for me whenever I am included..lol-I love to satisfy my woman..To make sex bad for me I will literally look at it like its purposely done.Even tho that isn't the case.All I need is confidence in bed that I will be satisfied,confidence enough for her to bend over,slow dance on top,and limber enough to bend that leg there and the other is wrapped on the back of my neck.
If there is a agreement that where are having sex,whether or not we are in a relationship I myself feel that connection at that moment I knew when I saw you that I want a relationship,I knew that we'll be going to the movies together.Truthfully the one night stand is never a one night if the is a connection,we will just risk to get to know each other better for more intimate sex,like in bathrooms ,ferest wheels,and front to back seat in car sex.

Good sex is when both of you are in tune with others body. He knows what I like I know what he likes. Chemistry you have to have great chemistry. If you're with a person for a certain amount of time, you will begin to have feelings for that person, not saying you're in love with him. I love it when it's so intense that you will look at each other and say damn, like you can just ravish each other. Bad sex is when he or she doesn't make you feel good. He just want his and its over. He brags about what he can do and don't do.I believe in totally satisfying my partner and vice versa. If i have to do all the work and he in turn just lays their like he is a King it will not work.

there are so many things that make it good. being comfortable enough with your partner to go "there", having him react exactly the way you expected when you do something he loves, the look he gets on his face when he's turned on and wants me, hearing him call my name, him wanting to please me as much as i want to please him... all make for good sex.

now bad sex on the other hand... if he's selfish, not attuned to my rhythm, too quiet (i need a man to moan, i need to know he's enjoying what i'm doing), too rough, too soft, too quick (slow the hell down, we're not going anywhere, lol) or just plain afraid to try things with me. it's a HUGE turnoff. then there's the man who thinks he knows it all and isn't open to suggestion or teaching...talk about bad sex. lol

I agree with the previous commentors that making love with someone u care about or in love with is the best.My baby says all the time he brought the freak out of me. I told him when feelings are involve, comfortable with your partner,and the mood is right sex can be taken to height that's unimagiable!!! I have a major issue on a bragger who doesn't lives up to their reputation. I have experience and put him on blast. Told everyone is wee wee wasn't bigger than a vienna sausage nor my 2 year old nephew!! That was a minute, minute ago so watch dudes lie on their d*##ks all the time.

There is no better healing than Sexual Healing. Because loving on someone makes all the difference in the world. The Passion, The Romance,The Intimacy and Ecstasy of it all. It is an Aphrodisiac that we should embrace as a gift. I love the those things that turn me on about a beautiful woman. The sexy painted toenails,Soft lotioned feet. The smell of Bijon or Amorige behind on the nape of her neck. The taste of her soft lips pressed against mine. Heck the only better than sex is thanking God for creating the experience and nostalgia of love. Heck I need some good lovin' right now.

"What makes sex good for me?" I haven't been in many relationships or had a lot of sex partners but there is only one where the sex has been great for me. We talk to each other during and express our love, wants, desires etc while making love. I used to think it was taboo or distracting to talk or express oneself while making love but it's NOT. The passion we have for one another is indescribable & mind-blowing. We have amazing chemistry. I can say w/o a doubt there has never been a time I didn't want to ravish him : ) I'm never too tired or sleepy to make love to him. I mean our four-play has lasted up to 3 hours, I never knew this was possible. It also helps that he's well equipped and knows how to use his equipment.

"What makes sex bad for me?"
The guy not taking his time but just trying to pleasure himself. Forcing the issue on trying new things instead of just letting them happen naturally. The guy's inability to last or keep up.

Sex is not good for me, b/c my partner never takes his time with me. He has never made me climax ever. I've been with him for fifteen years. I do what I have to to please him but, when it comes down to me, it is a different story. I 'm very sexual though, ore with my self than him. I figure I have to get somethingout of this deal. I make my own money I guess I have to make sure that Iam pleasured as well.

what makes it good for me is when i'm having it with that special person that means everything to me and when we start off with about an hour of non stop romance session and when i see tears in her eyes that makes me go like BANG BANG BANG!!! and what turns me off is nothing because i have always had it that one special person . Sex feels real good when you have it with the one you love most because then you get to do all the crazy things you wanna do and even if you dont have fun you end up having fun because he or she is exactly what you want .

sex is good wen he is hittin it rite meanin dat he make yu call vout his name while tears are rollin down yur face. sex is bad wen he give up before yu give up.

Sex is good when me and my lover is connecting together, I want her and she wants me. Boy you talk about passionate love making!!

WHEN IT'S GOOD START ME OFF WITH SOME TONGUE WORK AND GIVE ME SOME ULTIMATE PLEASURE AND STICK ME REAL GOOD WHEN IT'S GOOD AND WHEN IT'S BAD WHEN HE BRAGS ABOUT HOW GOOD HE IS AND WE DECIDE TO HAVE SEX AND HE DIDN'T DO WHAT HE BRAGGED ABOUT THEN I AM SO FRUSTATED BECAUSE I DIDN'T GET MY ORGASM!

sex is better for me when both of us are enjoying it. there is no pleasure in getting into sex if you are not going to satisfy each other. satisfaction is a must, i would not waste my time if i am not gonna satisfy you. its like starting a job and not completing it. why start something you are not gonna finish. like the old saying goes, don't get on the horse if you are not gonna ride it. or you can't get paid for ajob that is not finish, but you can get fired instead.

Relationships wreck great sex.

It's good! I'm with that person who does it right everytime. Bad is when you're with that wrong person. He/She is not the person you thought they were. Glad I'm not there. Matter of fact, where is he?

what makes it bad is if its tooooo soft ans sweet, i like me some gangsta luv... ruff me up a bit and call me dirty names...

Love makes sex good...the passion two people have for one another during the act, and one not just acting. What makes it bad for me is when there are no feelings involved at all. I won't reach climax, because I'm thinking of everything but the act itself; therefore, casual sex has never been okay for me.

I will say this, I loved someone with all intensity what seemed like a lifetime ago (actually three yrs ago). We were not sexually compatible at all, but I loved him with every bit of life in me. We lasted five years. In the end I told him if I had to base being with him on sex alone, I would have left him the first time we had it. So, love conquers all, it's not about the act itself...that's not what makes sex good or bad...it's the feelings behind the act that turns it into a moment to smile upon or frown at.

"What makes sex good for you?" There are all kinds of reasons for me. There are physical aspects, such as comfort in the bed, in the car, wherever. Emotional aspects, like NOT having my body write a check my heart can't or won't pay. And sexual aspects, like both of us being sexually inclined/skillful/talented/experienced.

"Does it matter to you if the other person is into it as long as you are getting yours?" I feel wrong getting mine if I haven't pleased her. It's an ego thing. I just feel selfish if I don't take care of my princess-partner. I need to feel very reassured that it's ok for me to flat-out take care of only myself.

"Is the sex better when you are in a committed relationship?" I wouldn't have worded this question quite this way - but yeah, being in love makes sex 1,000xs more meaningful. Even if it is raunchy.

"What turns you off during sex?" Not being responsive to me. Talk to me. Don't just lay there. Move. -Something. There is a chance you might be more kinky than me- so don't call me names ("oh do me you you s.o.b.") in the heat of the moment. Also don't make me feel like a "scratching post" -you know how cats can be so aloof when they use one? Well, lustful, desensitized women can be make me feel used, no matter how good it is. Lust is fine, when you care. Not fine when you deliberately use me, when there is literally nothing more than flying hormones.

u have to have that connecting with your that special person

What makes sex bad for me is when a guy piece is just to small and to top it off he aint moving with you, the rythem is off. Now what makes it good is when we have an connection & are comfortable with one another to express ourself in many ways and his piece is big enough to hit the spot.