Comments on: When He Wants You Back But… You’ll Pass

By: Nay

Nay — Thu, 20 May 2010 01:13:23 +0000

Can the church say ‘Amen’????! I loved a man once with everything I had but he was too busy living ‘the life’ to love me right. Several heartbreaks and a couple years later, we’re friends and when he thinks I’m not looking, I catch him looking at me with that ‘Damn, I lost a good one’ look on his face. Even though we’re both unattached, my mind was made up a long time ago; Im on to the next one, lol!

By: MIMI

MIMI — Mon, 10 May 2010 05:02:11 +0000

We as women all say that famous line ” I’m a good women” Well it takes a men to confirm that statement ladies and I have been confirmed a dozen times,lol..No really I have had many ex boyfriends trying to come back and I’m just not into opening the curtains after the show is over, because I feel like I already know what the ending is going to be so why waste time on a show you already have seen? So I choose not to go backwards but look to the jungle of the dating world. I have hope that a man will reconize what I have to offer and seal the deal with me as his women and he as my man.

By: mita1364

mita1364 — Fri, 07 May 2010 11:45:06 +0000

Oh My, How much this article brought back to memory my love life,

and Marriages . Unfortunate, but true. When A woman Fall OUT of love

There is NO going back. She’s seen it been there and while making

an attempt to love it has hated it kicking and screaming. I

believe that most of us (men & women) would settle for the person

of interest if they just BEHAVED, However, Most of us don’t

Settle and don’t Want to. Thank God, I have been married three

times and the longest was 23 years. That might be a bit older

than some of you out there But a very near point they recognized

that I am a GOOD WOMAN. They were the lice. BREE God IS GOOD.

He’ll get you out of it. Trust.

By: Bree

Bree — Fri, 07 May 2010 02:23:04 +0000

Amen!

By: Trying to Endure

Trying to Endure — Fri, 07 May 2010 00:26:00 +0000

I am one who can also relate to this article. I have been married for years and I am fighting for my marriage. I am in love with a man who is too selfish to love me back the right way. Only God knows what the final outcome will be, but I have to endure until God tells me to move. If my husband becomes my ex…it’s okay because I can now say that I have done all that I can do. This battle isn’t mine. I know that whatever decisions are made, I did what most women wouldn’t do and I endured in spite of the VERY DIFFICULT circucmstances that arose.

By: GreenEyez

GreenEyez — Thu, 06 May 2010 15:52:11 +0000

I can relate a whole lot but usually after the relationship is over I realize that it was maybe for the best. Than we they have a change of heart…I’m thinking … I don’t want to go threw that again so just let me be. Honestly its happened so much I’d like to really see this man I’m destine to be with he must gone be something special…and thats my best english right thur!

By: UniqSoul

UniqSoul — Thu, 06 May 2010 14:56:03 +0000

I enjoyed this article and at almost forty having been married and divorced and dating this definetly speaks to the trials of people really getting to know themselves. When you have been hurt by LOVE it causes you to mature or become bitter because you do not want to experience that pain again. Most of us heal and then begin to learn whom we are because it is only then that you are truly able to appreciate the love of another person or know who the right man is for you. I believe that we all have the ability to inspire on different levels, but again to fully appreciate you have to experience hurt and loss. Sistah’s we teach so much, and sometimes not everyone we encounter are meant to be our lovers, we are simply there for a season to push them to the next level!!!However, at this age I am tired of teaching and tired of those that finally get the lesson trying to come back asking for another chance. However it is life because I know that the seasoned brothers are a product of our sacrafice. Great Article!!!!

By: lost soul

lost soul — Thu, 06 May 2010 03:52:30 +0000

i have been there, i love a perfect woman for me and i make a big mistake, by thinking that i was the man.That was 25 years ago,i still think about it,because i still love her,but she wanted to move on,i respect that,because that is how strong she is.without love in the world there is on life.lost soul

By: CutieyLadie

CutieyLadie — Wed, 05 May 2010 23:54:48 +0000

oh wow, i can totally relate. I’m 37 years old. I can tell you that ALL of my Ex’s have wanted to come back to me at one time or another. I have broken up with all of my EX’s except one. And that one, we are still friends after 20 plus years and he recently asked me for another chance but I decided to get back with my ex-fiancé. Well, now he’s my fiancé again. But like you said, not everyone is easily replaceable and some people are special. I’m not saying that i’m all that, but i certainly know how to treat people in general to make them feel special to me, not just men. I”m talking about all People, i have clients who makes positive comments on my personality, my demeanor and just ME as a person. I don’t fake it. Now imagine if I gave you my heart and all of me. (LOL) It was their lost and they realized they lost a good woman, a little too late. I enjoyed this article. it touched close to home

Smooches.

By: Odeline

Odeline — Wed, 05 May 2010 16:31:12 +0000

I can definitely relate. I am 25 years of age.. I have had past relationships and in every relationship my ex would regret they ever lost me. What saddens me is while I was dealing with them I would put my all in the relationship but for some reason they never seen that. One accused me of being 2 pretty and since I go out so he knew I was talking to other guys. Actually I wasn’t, when I’m locked to someone I tend closed everyone out. That one still comes by my house leaving notes everyone in a while. It hurts me now because, I just got out of a 2 year, 5 years total on and off relationship.. I have never gave as much as I did with this guy.. yet I have realized he never truly appreciated me, but still never wanted me to go. Why hold on to someone when you desire others? Feel like I wasted so much of my time…