Comedian Monique commented in an interview recently that if her husband cheats on her she would not leave him. She infact made it a point to say that if he cheated on her 20 times that she probably still would not leave him.
“Let me say this: I have not had sex outside my marriage with Sidney,” the Academy Award nominee says in this year’s 29th – and final – Barbara Walters Oscar special.
“Could Sid have sex outside of his marriage with me? Yes. That’s not a deal-breaker. That’s not something that would make us say, ‘Pack your things and let’s end the marriage.’”
And what if the “Precious” star discovered that Hicks had, well, stepped out more than once? No sweat.
“What if it’s 20 times?” asks the openminded actress. “So what? We’ve been best friends for over 25 years, and we truly know who we are. Oftentimes, people get into marriages and they don’t know who they’re laying next to. I’m very comfortable and secure with my husband.”
Okay. Here is the thing, I agree with Monique in saying that if my husband cheated on me and was caught, there is a chance that I might stay and want to work it out depending on the circumstances. Sometimes, a second chance is allowable. However, for me to say that I would stay as he cheated on my 20 times or more! That is a no go. To me if he is doing all that then he is living the life of a single man so he needs to be a single man. I have to disagree with Monique’s formula which seems to be allow your husband to do whatever the hell he wants because what you two have should mean more than him cheating. If that is the case then what they have should mean more to him than to go and cheat. It should work both ways in that sense.
There are far too many negative consequences from cheating such as outside children, diseases, crazy women trying to kill you and your wife etc… Constantly chasing after ass is not worth loosing your family, half your income, and a huge part of your life. I do not think that as women we should necessarily make excuses for men and their doggish behavior. It is possible for a man, like other human beings, to do the right thing if he so chooses.
Although, I understand her point and agree with her to an extent, as far as saying that cheating is not necessarily a deal breaker, I have to strongly disagree with her and say that habitual cheaters should just live the life they want to live and that is of an unmarried person.
Besides, Sidney better not rock the boat too much. We see who is the super star/ money maker in this love connection and it ain’t him. I’m sure he realizes that and weighs his options before he pipes down another chick. At least, he should. I wonder how he feels about her discussing his cheating or possible in the public constantly?
Via: NY Daily News
