Comments on: Being A Player Is Played Out http://yeahshesaidit.com/2010/02/05/being-a-player-is-played-out/ The Voice For The Urban Sophisticated Black Woman Sun, 05 Feb 2012 15:22:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Mr. Harrison http://yeahshesaidit.com/2010/02/05/being-a-player-is-played-out/comment-page-1/#comment-1544 Mr. Harrison Wed, 24 Mar 2010 16:39:32 +0000 http://yeahshesaidit.com/?p=4332#comment-1544 Good topic for the post and excellent point coming from the female perspective. However, no matter how you view it, men, young men, and boys will go through a player stage in life. I feel that its part of the males cycle through life. And if a male does not complete that cycle when he is in his youth, he will revert back to it in older ages. It's the same as when girls/women go through an attention stage. It has nothing to do with social time (i.e. yr 2010), because if you can date back to prominent figures of our history's past, you see that it has been a continuous cycle. This cycle can be linked to a direct relation to men's looks, status, success, and/or success. And women know that they strike out dudes because of the lack of these qualities that men haven't achieved at particular times in their life. So let us guys get it out of our system when we're in our youth so that we learn 'Quality is better than Quantity'. Something to think about, 'All women want to be with a percieved winner, and all men want a top-notch looking women'. Good topic for the post and excellent point coming from the female perspective. However, no matter how you view it, men, young men, and boys will go through a player stage in life. I feel that its part of the males cycle through life. And if a male does not complete that cycle when he is in his youth, he will revert back to it in older ages. It’s the same as when girls/women go through an attention stage. It has nothing to do with social time (i.e. yr 2010), because if you can date back to prominent figures of our history’s past, you see that it has been a continuous cycle. This cycle can be linked to a direct relation to men’s looks, status, success, and/or success. And women know that they strike out dudes because of the lack of these qualities that men haven’t achieved at particular times in their life.

So let us guys get it out of our system when we’re in our youth so that we learn ‘Quality is better than Quantity’. Something to think about, ‘All women want to be with a percieved winner, and all men want a top-notch looking women’.

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